Snark and Paranoia in the ICU

It's been five weeks and a day since my brain surgery. I have a post-op checkup with my neurologist tomorrow and on Friday an MRI immediately followed up by a visit to my neurosurgeon. Hopefully, they will give me the all clear so I can keep my skydiving appointment (kidding Mom!). 

Progress

Every post should have a point, a theme, a main idea. Besides the health update, I will share my experience in the St. Vincent's ICU:

This was my second stay in this particular ICU, but it seemed much nicer this time. It was quieter, brighter, more organized than what I remember from my first visit. The nurses were extremely nice, attentive, and competent--a smidge more than during my last stay four years ago. If I could remember names, which I am horrible at, even under normal circumstances, I would thank them individually. However, I will just have to say Thank You ICU Nurses! 

Before surgery

Before my surgery, my neurosurgeon visited my room to inform me of the situation and what he would do to fix it. I must have been under the influence of some medications because I remember saying something snarky like "Can't you just zap it with your fancy cyber-knife thingy?" (I am often snarky with family and close friends, but never with acquaintances--especially not someone who is about to cut into my brain.) I remember the smirk on his face. 

Once I resigned myself to the surgery, I told him to shave off all my hair, unlike last time when (at my request) he tried to give me bangs. Another smirk.

I remember a little bit of pre-op, when a Burgess parent who works there recognized me and said hello. Then it's all a blank. I don't recall the post-op MRI, the first time Joe saw me, waking up, nothing. I can't tell you my first memory, because I don't remember the order of things. Here are 5 things I do remember:

#wonderfulhusband

1. Joe stayed with me every night in a very uncomfortable recliner and barely ate or slept. And he still looked gorgeous (see above)
2. At one point, I had an arterial line and three IVs...and my veins suck. Joe says 4 attempts were made to place an IV at one point. I'm glad I wasn't awake.
3. I had a major case of paranoia that seemed very real. I thought the nurses were conspiring against me. I heard conversations about me, saw them walk past my room to spy on me. I thought they were blocking the door so Joe couldn't come in. None of which occurred. I was in a panic, texting Joe, begging him to hurry up and save me. I was suspicious of my nurses and cold toward them for a long time, even after Joe told me I was hallucinating. I blame the meds, but it was so real. I mention this because it seems funny now, and a little embarrassing, but if it happens to anyone else, they won't think it's abnormal.
4. I think at one point, the room next to mine was occupied by   someone who defecated all over the place and then spread the love. I heard the nurses chastise the patient (in a nice way--like a parent to a child) as they cleaned up. Sometimes I question the reality of this event, but I do recall my nurse entering my room with different clothes on. Some nurses are superheroes.
5. Unlike the first time, I had no gurgling/swirling sensation in my head the first time I sat up. I didn't feel claustrophobic and have a mental breakdown due to the wrap on my head. There was no tube from my brain to a pressure bag on an IV rack to worry about. The food was slightly better.

"Real" food

I remember a few more things, but this post is long enough and readers like short, numbered lists. And I need a snack.

The Big Reveal

Fingers crossed for my appointments in the next few days. I will post an update after it all goes down. Until next week...

Almost Carol from The Walking Dead

It is now four weeks since my surgery and I'm coming right along. It won't be long before my hair will look like Carol Peletier's, a character on one of my favorite TV shows The Walking Dead. 

I wasn't a fan of Carol (played by Melissa McBride) for the first few seasons. I tend to fall for stronger characters--at least characters who show their strength in obvious ways. Carol seemed to be wimpy, a helpless victim. Now I know better. In the last two seasons, Carol has evolved into a real bad ass. This is one reason why I hope my hair follows the evolution of Carol's. Granted, her hair is the result of complete neglect and lack of available salons during the zombie apocalypse. But I bet my hair stylist will be able to coerce my 'do in a similar fashion. Heads up Merideth.

But enough about my hair. I realize there are more important things going on with my status, like my lack of headaches. Anyone who suffers chronic headaches knows how great a headache free day can be. Well I've had four weeks with no headaches! After almost a year of daily pain, this is a dream.

My major complaints right now are general weakness, slightly blurred vision (which could be a result of my meds or my age), and the knowledge that I have an internal plastic tube running from my head to my abdomen. The shunt prevents me from laying on my left side because it's uncomfortable. I've researched this on several medical forums, and it seems to be hit or miss if I'll ever get used to it. Here's an image of the shunt and how it's placed. It's function is to drain excess CSF (hydrocephalus), which is blocked by my tumor, out of my head and divert it to my abdomen where my body will take care of it naturally.

I keep reminding myself that it could be much worse. There is always someone sicker than me, weaker, more tired or frustrated than me. Or we could be in the middle of a zombie apocalypse. While it's difficult for those around me to watch my recovery, I think I have it the easiest because I know what I'm capable of and what my limitations are. I'm not stronger than the woman who undergoes rounds of chemotherapy for breast cancer or the child who spends weeks in the hospital battling brain cancer. They have it worse.

I am not the victim Carol Peletier. I am the bad ass Carol Peletier.

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Brain Tumor Part Deux: The Backstory Story

Today marks three weeks since my second brain surgery. I didn't think I'd have to revisit this blog for such a reason, but here I am. I'm a little less bald than when I came home from the hospital, and a lot less brain tumor-y than before the surgery. Everyone around me has been amazing, especially my husband, throughout this whole experience. I would especially like to thank him, my Mom, my Mother-in-Law, my Sister, and my three great teen-age kids for their help and patience so far. 

Brain tumors are scary things, especially when they cause unexpected seizures at the most inappropriate times--like your oldest son's high school graduation. Looking back, I should have paid attention to the signs that presented themselves quite clearly. However, I wasn't the only one in denial about my tumor. 

The following is a retelling of the events that led up to my most recent surgery. It is meant as a cautionary tale for those who may have the same type of tumor as me. It is also meant as a sort of PSA for everyone to pay attention to symptoms and don't dismiss or deny chronic headaches.

I'd been having increasingly bad headaches since last summer. The first indication that the tumor had regrown was that I could no longer lay on my belly in bed to read (my favorite reading position) without my head throbbing. All the literature I had read said that the type of tumor I have, called SEGA, was super slow growing. My team of caregivers, including my surgeon and the specialists at the Herscot Center for TSC, all assumed that since I was born with the tumor, and it took 40 years to cause a problem, that I would die of old age before it was large enough to cause problems again. Wrong.

I underwent yearly MRI's and my neurosurgeon compared each image to the one previous. The tumor showed no remarkable growth. I asked about the headaches I'd been having and was reassured that the tumor was not the cause. Again, no change in size according to the radiologist and the surgeon. 

I contacted my PC and we looked for other causes--tension, stress, allergies, sinuses--and settled on sinusitis. I have had trouble with my sinuses my entire life, so this was a believable diagnosis. My PC prescribed a steroidal nasal spray to shrink the tissues and it seemed to help a little. Two months later (May), I was back in her office because my symptoms had worsened: neck and shoulder tension, throbbing head, visual auras, and nausea. I've had migraines before too, so again, I attributed these problems to tension and migraines. She prescribed a muscle relaxant for the tension. I took the medication as needed, but the problem didn't completely disappear. 

I should say that back around Thanksgiving, I had decided to quit my job as Library Assistant at the local elementary school. I had just begun my third year and I was exhausted all the time. I attributed it to the demands of balancing a full time job with three teenagers, a husband who traveled a lot for his job, my frustration with not having time (or energy) to do the things I enjoyed. I wanted to write, garden, keep my house clean, and most importantly, be a better wife and mother. 

In order to be fair to my supervisor and my coworkers, I knew I had to finish out the year. I was determined to fulfill my commitment to the school, but my heart wasn't in it. For six months, I struggled with the anxiety and stress of wishing I could just be done with my job and the guilt for feeling that way. Stress, anxiety, tension--of course I blamed these for my headaches too. If I could just make it to the end of the school year, then I could relax and all my problems would go away, right?

I almost made it. On June 1, the day of my son's high school graduation, I had a headache with auras, and nausea. I tried to power through. My parents and in-laws had come down for the event and I was determined to make it a good day for everyone. On the way into the high school, I vomited in the grass. I should have known then. 

Once we got inside, we sat toward the back in case I needed to go to the bathroom. I remember zoning out a bit as we waited for the ceremony to begin. Then I began to sob uncontrollably. I never cry. The last thing I remember is seeing the graduates lined up, ready to march in.

Apparently, I vomited again and they ushered me out to the hallway. I had a seizure. I never have had a seizure before. Someone called 911 and I was brought to Harrington ER, where I had another seizure. I was transferred to UMass Medical, and then to St. Vincent's (where I had my first surgery). I remember bits and pieces of these events, like the trees passing by during my ambulance ride. My family has filled in some of the gaps for me, but I know I'll never remember it all.

 I really wish I could have seen my son graduate. That may be the saddest part of it all for me. I'm grateful to my parents and in-laws for taking care of my children during this time. They knew just what to do, how to handle the situation, and what to say to the kids. Luckily, none of my kids saw me have a seizure and I hope they never do. My husband has been traumatized forever by witnessing his wife seizing.

So now, three weeks later, I can say I'm half way on the road to the 6 week recovery period. It really takes longer than that, but 6 weeks is a benchmark used by most surgeons. In the coming weeks, I plan to increase my endurance so that I can rock this totally badass hair the Nine Inch Nails concert on July 29. Fourth row tickets will not be given away! 

Herscot Center for TSC